I’ve been going out with a really hot man for a couple of months, but we still haven’t had sex yet and I’m starting to wonder why not! We’re both in our 30s and have both been single for a while.

It’s obvious there’s a lot of sexual chemistry between us, but things have never gone beyond the kissing and cuddling stage.

Don’t get me wrong, the kissing is hot and I’m into it, but he always stops before things go further.

He’ll suddenly start a conversation or get up to do something.

I’m perplexed – is he just really shy or is he hiding something? Maybe he’s not as into me as I thought he was.

I’ve never been in this situation before – most guys I’ve been with in the past have been pretty eager to get on with it.

The thing is, I really like him a lot and don’t want to kill the buzz or scare him off by being too direct.

We’re still getting to know each other and it’s going well.

It feels awkward to ask outright if he wants to have sex or even....